>> Our purpose is to serve الله and how to fulfill our purpose may different from one another.
>> There's no one size fits all spiritual journey.
> The prophet Mohammad SAW, taught us that intention define everything's.
انما الا عمال باالنيات
Actions are only judged by their intentions. (Bukhari Muslim).
Marriage can be worship if the intention is love, mercy, and mutual aid.
Motherhood can be worship if it is seen as a trust, a way to raise believing souls.
Career can be worship if it's for provide for your family, avoids haram.
>> When the niyyah is right, any phase of life can become an act of devotion.
> Life isn't linier, it's cyclical.
Sometimes you're in season of giving, sometimes waiting, or rebuilding.
🌹 Sayyeda Khadijah radiyaAllahuanhaa who was twice widow & chose the prophet Mohammad SAW.
🌹 Sayyeda Aisha radiyaAllahuanhaa, who was widow after the prophet Muhammad SAW passed away, yet she didn't retreat from life. Instead she become scholar of the Islamic history.
>> There's the immense of worship whether you're single/married/divorce/child free.
🔑 Know this:
Every phase has a form of worship built into it.
The path may shift.
The pace may be slow.
But the destination is always the same: الله.
إِنَّمَآ أَمۡوَٰلُكُمۡ وَأَوۡلَٰدُكُمۡ فِتۡنَةٞ
Your wealth & children are trial. (At taghhabun, 15).
>> Marriage is a trust not trophy.
It can be source of peace/pain. It's mean to grow in sabr, mercy, companionship >> ❌ not mark of your worth.
❌ Having them doesn't raise your rank.
✅ Rising them with Taqwa does.
✅ Not having them also doesn't lower your rank.
🌹 Some of righteous women never bear children but they still amongst the beloved to الله.
❌ Let's not measure our worth by marital status/motherhood.
✅ Let's measure it by righteousness, character, proximity to الله.
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How to walk this journey?
1. Honour is the phase you're in.
Every stage has blessings & it's trials. Worship through it.
2. Define success by Taqwa not titles.
3. Refocus your goal on akhira alignment.
Is these dream helping me to serve الله / distracting me from Him?
4. Seek knowledge.
Stay connected to circles that connected to grow your soul.
🔑 Every moment can be sacred if the intention is there.
> Worship isn't any limited. It's life long rhythm that moves with you through change.
> The path may change but the destination never does.
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